Webcam sex...is it really that great?

Ok guys...the nice thing about being single and home alone, is that we have free reign to look however we want to. It's hard being a girl--it takes a lot of work to even look 'business causal' *let alone* all dolled up for a night out.

Hanging out by ourselves on a Saturday night? That means it's a night off from the pre-date work-up we go through--no make-upo, gentlemeno--

So tonight I was hanging out by myself...just resting from all of the holiday commotion stuff (which should be a blog on to itself--'how to get through the holidays and come out of it sane', though I can't write that one because I haven't quite figured it out yet),

so I was resting, enjoying the pre-New Year's peace,

when I got an IM from a guy I went out on a date with a couple of weeks ago...totally addicted to his work, which is okay because it means he won't get too close too fast, kind of an asshole (but I like the fact when I told him that to his face, he agreed), and is great in the sack--

He IM's me tonight, and then wanted to do the Webcam f*** thing...

Is it really that great??

I told him no, of course...and the reason why--I was in position to be seen by anyone other than myself (and my maker)...and definitely *not* in the mood to get all made up for 15 minutes of visual masterbation, either.

And he was upset about it!

Guys--when you ask a woman to webcam, it's kind of like asking her out on a date--whether or not you're admitting it to yourself, you're evaluating her, so it's important that she looks the best she can--and that ain't easy :)

Webcaming should be saved for at least after the relationship has gotten a little serious--you guys have to earn it--

Before then, we deserve a dinner for all the work we go through to get ready--and movie, too :)